What do you think about second chances?

Princess LaRonda · #1 07-09-2005

Second chances in a relationship.....

like what could a person possibly do that you wouldn't allow them a second chance?

or...what could a person do in order to get you to give them a second chance?

aiwifey · #2 07-09-2005

If a guy cheated on me, there would be no SECOND CHANCE! :x :x

Princess LaRonda · #3 07-09-2005

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Originally Posted by aiwifey

If a guy cheated on me, there would be no SECOND CHANCE! :x :x

lol nobody said anything about cheating lol calm it down

I mean relationships in general....if its a boy/girlfriend type thing...or a friendship...relationship between family members and stuff....

AggieWarrior · #4 07-09-2005

since i've been blessed w/ a lot of 2nd chances, i'd give someone else another chance... i'ma forgiving person, but if you blow your 2nd chance, then kiss another chance good bye...

the only way i couldn't give a girl a 2nd chance if she cheated on me w/ some dude (or girl even) i was REAL close to... that'd ruin so many things...

Jamila iz Back! · #5 07-09-2005

Im not in a relationship...but I would give my man a second chance..He had to do something extremely foul for me not to take him back. If he cheated, Id give a him second chance...if he cheated wih a friend...there is definitely no second chance...so in many situations I would prolly give him a second chance. We all human and all make stupid mistakes at one time or another. There may be a time when I need a second chance...thats why I wouldnt trip too much abou it...but im no fool..so dont take my kindnes for granted cause a 3 strike policy will be implemented...Like the saying..goes " do me wrong once shame on you, do me wrong twice shame on me. " So yea thats where I stand

Lady Invictus · #6 07-10-2005

It depends on what happened, especially if we discussed and he knew how I felt about something and he still went out of his way to hurt me directly or indirectly. Or if it's some mess he would have died about if I would have did it. I have been forgiving ...sometimes the good outweighs the bad and your not willing to give it all up for a mistake. But I won't go down that same road again.

Kool 2k6 · #7 07-10-2005

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Originally Posted by Princess LaRonda

Second chances in a relationship.....

like what could a person possibly do that you wouldn't allow them a second chance?

or...what could a person do in order to get you to give them a second chance?

If she cheated, no second chance.

If the relationship "just didn't work out" the first time around, a second chance is a possibility.